Sunday, July 19, 2026

Going On A Bear Hunt in Dartford

Character Bear by Scott Cooper | Dartford Bear Hunt

Finally! After months of waiting, a brand new art trail has arrived in Dartford and, as you know, I love an art trail.

After walking with the Snowman, trailing Morph, tracking down the Books About Town and finding every single one of the London 2012 Olympic mascots, it's time to put my super sleuth skills to work in my own hometown.

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Monday, June 30, 2025

Celebrating Summer in England

Families relax by the side of a river in England in summertime. The sun is shining and many relax in the shade of trees

Summer is truly spectacular in England this year. We've had weeks of hot, dry weather and it looks to continue well into August. We've been out and about a lot and the time has finally come for our short trip to Paris. See you on the other side!

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Friday, June 20, 2025

Lavender Fields and Calm at Castle Farm

Castle Farm Lavender fields in full bloom, Kent, England

Summer has finally arrived in England and it's lavender season! As temperatures eased towards 30°c this weekend, we took advantage of the blue skies and sunshine and headed out to Castle Farm in Kent.

Castle Farm Lavender fields in full bloom, Kent, England

Castle Farm, a family-run farm near Shoreham,

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Tuesday, June 10, 2025

Frolicking with Goats at Buttercups Sanctuary

Close up of a tan-coloured goat looking straight into the camera

I’m delighted to tell you about one of my favourite experiences ever, the day I spent with Billy and the kids at Buttercups Sanctuary for Goats in Kent.

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Tuesday, March 18, 2025

A Sunday Morning in Westerham

The Statue of James Wolfe stands in the town of Westerham

If you’re searching for the perfect brunch spot in Kent, you really can’t do better than the charming town of Westerham. Quintessentially English and steeped in history, this little gem is full of big names and fascinating stories.

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Saturday, February 01, 2025

The Cosy Kentish Town of Appledore

A signpost for Tenterden & Woodchurch in front of a red brick house in Appledore, Kent

One of my New Year's resolutions this year was to explore Kent more. Who am I kidding? My New Year's resolutions every year is to explore Kent more.

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Thursday, August 29, 2024

Twilight Dining at the Westwell Wines, Kent

A view down a row of green vines | Westwell Wines, Kent

Nestled in the heart of Kent's picturesque countryside, Westwell Wines is a hidden gem that beautifully marries tradition with innovation. Their range of wines, crafted with passion and an unwavering commitment to sustainability, offers a true taste of the English terroir*.

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Saturday, April 20, 2024

The Augustine Camino: from Tyland Barn to Thurnham

Signpost at Detling

Kent farmhouse with distinctive oast house

It had been over an hour since we'd left Aylesford Priory on our walk along the Augustine Camino. We'd left pavements and roadways behind and had begun to walk across muddy, waterlogged fields, past quaint farmhouses and distinctive Kentish oast houses.

Decorative window in Tyland Barn

Our first (and very welcome) stop was at Tyland Barn where we enjoyed hot drinks and pastries. Tyland Barn is the home of the Kent Wildlife Trust and was one of several places that I discovered on the walk and would love to visit again.

Doorway of cottage near Boxley Abbey

Feeling warmer and fortified after our break, we walked on to Boxley Abbey, site of a former 12th century monastery which is now a private home. The house has been on the market for several years and the asking price has been reduced from £2.25m to £1.85m.

Row of cottages near Boxley Abbey

Naturally, we only got as far as the gate to the property but we admired the quaint cottages nearby which would have housed workers or guests of the abbey and later the estate.

Boarley Farm vineyard in Boxley

Our walk then continued across the Chapel Downs vineyard at Boarley Farm. Together with their Boxley and Kit's Coty sites, Boarley establishes Chapel Downs as the biggest winery in England and an emerging contender on the global wine market. I shall have to go on a wine tour and report back on this!

Red phone box in Boxley

We soon arrived at the incredibly picturesque village of Boxley. Note the red phone box with working pay phone.

The King's Arms, Boxley

When we arrived in Boxley, our group split up and some went to enjoy packed lunches in the churchyard while the rest of us opted for lunch at the King's Arms. I enjoyed a delicious lemon and thyme linguini with marinated crispy chicken thighs. It was honestly so good that I know I have to take Stephen back there soon.

St Mary the Virgin & All Saints Church, Boxley

Sadly the heavens had opened while we were eating and we found the rest of our group shivering inside the church. It was not the first or last time that it rained on us that day!

Orchards at Detling

We were keen to continue our walk after that, both to warm up and to work off our lunches. Our route took us across more fields and past orchards, with stunning views and a bit of sunshine too.

By this time, we'd been together for over five hours and my legs were beginning to protest each time we stopped moving. The only choice was to keep moving!

St Mary the Virgin Church, Thurnham

We finally arrived at our penultimate stop, the St Mary the Virgin Church in Thurnham.

Pilgrim stamps on Augustine Camino

Several members of the group collected their pilgrim stamps - they had been able to collect three that day. One of the women kindly let me photograph her book.

Stained glass at St Mary the Virgin Church, Thurnham

We admired the stained glass and played with a chest which required a puzzle to be solved in order to open it.

Daffodils at St Mary the Virgin Church, Thurnham

We left the church and walked to the Black Horse Inn in Thurnham where the greatest downpour of the day began. Luckily, our taxi arrived to take us back to Aylesford Priory where I'd parked my car. I'd walked 21908 steps over 9.7 miles and was very pleased with a successful day of exploring.

If my posts about this walk have piqued your interest, you might be interested in the week-long walks along the Augustine Camino. The 2024 dates are Monday 29th April – Sunday 5th May 2024 and Monday 30th September – Sunday 6th October 2024.

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Saturday, April 06, 2024

The Augustine Camino: Aylesford Priory to Aylesford Village

St Thérèse of Lisieux statue in the gardens of Aylesford Priory

Desperate to explore more at the end of winter, I'd been searching for Kentish walking tours and was delighted when an advert popped up on my feed for the Heart of Kent walking festival which takes place in and around Maidstone every March. I chose the Introduction to Pilgrimage walk from Aylesford Priory to Thurnham along the Augustine Camino which promised the most instagrammable view in Kent and met my requirements of moderate difficulty and a medium distance of 7 miles. If you know anything about the concept of 'country miles', you won't be surprised that our walk landed up being closer to 9 miles!

Signposts at Aylesford Priory with the Shrine Altar in the background

Our guide was Andrew Kelly, Route Director for the Augustine Camino. Andrew is a lover of long-distance walks and wanted to emulate the medieval pilgrims by creating a week-long walking pilgrimage route from Rochester Cathedral to the Shrine of St Augustine in Ramsgate, that crucially stops in the most important churches along the way. The walk I took was an introduction to the week-long route. Our walking group was a nice mix of people both young and old, ranging from very religious to not religious at all. It made for great conversation.

The Reception House at Aylesford Priory, a stone and brick building

Aylesford Priory, also known as The Friars, was founded in 1242 by members of the Carmelite Order. The Carmelites are a Catholic mendicant order, and Aylesford is one of the oldest Carmelite communities in the world. In 1247 Saint Simon Stock is said to have received the Brown Scapular from the Virgin Mary. This event has made Aylesford a pilgrimage site for centuries.

The Shrine of Our Lady of Mount Carmel, Aylesford Priory
The Shrine of Our Lady of Mount Carmel

After the Dissolution of the Monasteries in the 16th century, the priory passed through various hands and underwent numerous transformations. It wasn't until 1949 that the Carmelites were able to purchase the property and return to Aylesford. Since then, it has been extensively restored and developed into a vibrant center of spiritual retreat and pilgrimage.

A ceramic work by Adam Kossowski at Aylesford Priory depicting the sixth station of the cross of Veronica wiping Jesus face

The priory features a mix of ancient and modern religious art and architecture. Visitors can find medieval buildings alongside modern sculptures and artworks, including pieces by the renowned artist Adam Kossowski.

The seal of the Carmelites, Aylesford Priory
The Seal of the Carmelites

Examples of Kossowski's ceramic works can be seen in the photos above and many were created in the pottery studio established in the 1950s.

The Cloisters of Aylesford Priory

Aylesford Priory contains several chapels located around an outdoor piazza which is popular in the summer.

A Magnolia tree in Aylesford Priory

There is a rosary way featuring statuettes representing the mysteries of the rosary but interestingly enough, the doors to the statuettes were closed for Lent. The first photo in this post features a statue of St Thérèse of Lisieux which is also located in the gardens of the rosary way.

Peace garden at Aylesford Priory

Our final stop at the priory was to the beautiful peace garden. There were flagstones at our feet with the word 'peace' written in scores of languages around the world. I was delighted to be able to read the word in Greek as I've been learning the language for a year.

The rooftops of Aylesford, Kent

Following our time at the priory, we walked down to the village of Aylesbury. It was my first time visiting this quaint village but I hope it won't be my last.

Aylesford is notable for its ancient history, with evidence of human habitation dating back to Neolithic times. There is a chamber tomb located nearby, Kit's Coty House, estimated to have been built around 4000BCE. One of the most significant archaeological finds in the area is the Aylesford Bucket, a well-preserved Iron Age wooden vessel dating back to around 75-25 BCE. This artifact is considered one of the finest examples of prehistoric woodwork in Europe and is on display at the British Museum.

The View of The Chequers Pub from the River Medway

We finally arrived at the spot that Andrew had described as the most Instagrammable spot in Kent - the view of the Chequers pub from the River Medway. It was indeed very pretty but we would also see some incredible scenery over the next five hours. I'll post all about the second half of the walk in two weeks time.

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Saturday, December 30, 2023

A Visit to Illuminate - The Tonbridge Winter Light Trail

A mirror ball reflects light at the Tonbridge Winter Lights

Seasons greetings! It's the most wonderful time of the year. Christmas is over for another year and we have a week between Christmas and New Year to relax. If you’re in the Northern Hemisphere, short days and long, dark nights provide the perfect setting for bright lights and illuminations. This year, we headed to Tonbridge Castle in Kent to visit their magical winter light trail.

The text Illuminate is projected onto Tonbridge Castle at the Tonbridge Winter Lights

The last time we visited Tonbridge Castle was during the lockdown of 2021. I was delighted to see how the castle was transformed by light and sound on this very cold winter night.

Red and green lights on a lawn at the Tonbridge Winter Lights

The trail leads you around the ground at the foot of the gatehouse where you can see disco balls and fields of lights that change colours in time to music.

People gather in front of a daisy projected onto a wall at the Tonbridge Winter Lights

There were illuminations projected against the gatehouse and the ruined walls.

A field of glowing tulip lights at the Tonbridge Winter Lights

We followed the path down past this field of electric tulips to the river walk.

Green and yellow orbs float along a walkway at the Tonbridge Winter Lights

These glowing orbs constantly changed colour too.

Two people talk under a large illuminated arched walkway at the Tonbridge Winter Lights

As we exited from the tall arched walkway, I turned back and spotted these friends chatting. I couldn’t resist taking a photo – they were lucky to find themselves alone under the lights – it had been packed with people moments before.

A short walk later and we found a stall to serve us Baileys Hot Chocolate. It was delicious and a treat to warm up our hands and bodies.

A pink dragon is illuminated at the Tonbridge Winter Lights. In the background are floating jellyfish lights

We continued to follow the path past yarn-bombed trees, magical toadstools and floating jellyfish before meeting this handsome dragon. As we exited the trail, we headed for the food stalls to grab some bratwurst and churros to round off a perfect winter evening.
@mandyist A visit to the Illuminate Winter Lights Trail at Tonbridge Castle #winterlights #winterlights2023 #winterlightsfestival #winterlightsfestival2023 #tonbridgecastle #illumination #illuminations ♬ Tubular Bells - Pt. I - Mike Oldfield
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Friday, November 24, 2023

Walking With the Snowman at Knole Park

The Snowman is one of the great loves of my life. I loved both The Snowman and Father Christmas books by Raymond Briggs and couldn't even try to estimate how many times I've seen The Snowman film. When I heard that Knole Park was putting on a Walking With the Snowman event, I wasted no time in borrowing two children and a baby and we braved the very autumnal weather on Sunday to track all twelve Snowman sculptures down. I'm fairly certain that you will guess the theme and will sing along!

Twelve Drummers Drumming

Twelve Drummers Drumming | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

Eleven Pipers Piping

Eleven Pipers Piping | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

Ten Lords A-Leaping

Ten Lords A-Leaping | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

Nine Ladies Dancing

Nine Ladies Dancing | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

I realise that I've cut off the dancing ladies on my landscape photo. They were very graceful!

Eight Maids A-Milking

Eight Maids A-Milking | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

Seven Swans A-Swimming

Seven Swans A-Swimming | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

Six Geese A-Laying

Six Geese A-Laying | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

Five Gold Rings

Five Gold Rings | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

Four Calling Birds

Four Calling Birds | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

Three French Hens

Three French Hens | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

Two Turtle Doves

Four Calling Birds | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

Detail from two turtle doves sculpture | Walking with the Snowman event

And a Partridge in a Pear Tree

Partridge in a Pear Tree | Decorated Snowman sculpture from the Walking with the Snowman event

No visit to Knole Park is complete without seeing the deer but I was surprised how few we encountered on this visit. Perhaps it is better to visit Knole Park in summer?

Deer grazing in field at Knole Park

Knole Park has made available a way to visit the park for free. You can park at the Sevenoaks multi-storey car park at TN13 1LW and walk into the grounds.

I would recommend parking at Knole Park itself postcode TN13 1HX but you may need to book ahead. When parking in the grounds, adults are charged £6 each for the Outdoor & Tower and £15 each for the Showrooms, Outdoor & Tower. Children are half price but there are also discounts for families.


This is the part of the post where I normally apologise and make excuses for being so scarce. 2023 has been both the best and worst of years and so all I can say is that I’m trying to catch up with myself and will hopefully be back to regular posts soon.

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